How to Have Sexy Skype Sex
Posted Date : Sun, Apr 15, 2012, 3 : 28 PM
How to Have Sexy Skype Sex
What if you want a summer fling to become a longer love affair despite the fact that one of you is moving away? Well, here comes technology. After all this is the era of gadgets and the Internet so long distance relationships are no longer as complicated as before. However, constant communication through chat and texts may not be enough to keep your love burning. When the time calls for physical contact, Skype sex comes into the picture.
Skype sex is the most popular means of keeping a relationship going despite the distance. Oftentimes referred as tech sex, it is the key to a great long distance relationship. While you may not have an issue undressing in front of your partner in person, you cannot say it’s the same case with Skype sex. There seems to be something about stripping in front of a web camera that makes the couple uncomfortable at first. But as the adage goes, practice makes perfect and this is definitely one thing that you won’t mind perfecting.
So granted that you are very nervous and this is your first time to try Skype sex, the question is: “how do you begin?” Here’s a checklist that you should follow to have a sexy Skype sex.
1. Make sure you have a strong Internet connection
First thing’s first: you are about to do a deed that will need a strong Internet connection for you to enjoy it fully. You wouldn’t want to have a video that keeps freezing up just when you’re already enjoying what you’re doing. So if you have reliability issues, you might be better off exchanging steamy messages or just doing phone sex.
2. Build up the intensity naturally
Since you don’t see each other that often, it might not be a good idea to jump into the business of cyber sex right away. Of course there are some things to catch up on so let all the pleasantries take over first. Just be very natural and let the conversation flow freely from your everyday activities to intimate thought sharing like how badly you miss each other. From there, start teasing to build up the intensity and before you know it, you’ve landed on the subject you know you both want to talk about.
Contrary to what others may tell you, spontaneous actions make the act more thrilling than when you plan in advance. Spontaneity also makes tech sex more relaxing because you won’t anticipate. Anticipation makes you nervous and when you’re nervous, you may not be able to perform well on cam.
However, if you are not one who likes spur of the moments very much then refer to number 2.
3. Set the mood
Making sure that you are alone in your room is one way of setting the mood for romance. You can also take advantage of the old bedroom tricks like aromatic candles and soft music playing in the background. Wearing lacy underwear will turn your partner on. Wearing nothing underneath an oversized shift will also turn him on. The key is to get his imagination going by not showing him everything at first. Sure, you’re going to take off all your clothes but that’s going to happen soon.