Make Your Sex Life Even Hotter

Posted Date : Sun, Apr 15, 2012, 2 : 27 PM

Make Your Sex Life Even Hotter

How would you describe your sex life?  Would you say it’s “good?” Why not take a few steps to ensure that your sex will be great every time, and will include orgasms that will blow your mind?

We are often so dedicated to finding new tips to better our sex lives that we forgets that sometimes it’s the simple things that have the greatest impact.  Get back to basics to keep the lust alive and your love life.

First, your five senses rule every detail of your life. By appreciating your surroundings, you can use your sight, smell, taste, hearing, and touch to become more appreciative of the world around you and to become a happier person.  The same is true of making love.  Stay in the moment so you can experience sex with all your senses to help to increase your pleasure and enjoy every moment. 

These tips can make you more responsive to your sexual partner.  You will be able to create sexual experiences that are more memorable and pleasurable for both of you, rather than simply having sex.  You may want to try a few new tricks such as blindfolding or turning out the lights, as your other senses will automatically compensate for the loss of sight.  This can make every touch and sound more intense as you wonder what will happen next.  Try burning scented candles and listening to sensual music to further increase the mood.  Extended foreplay can create more intense experiences and orgasms, as your body will be prepared and anticipating every new sensation.

New textures and locations can also affect the sensual experience, and can incorporate your individual preferences and mindset.  If you are feeling passionate and raw, try a thumping primal beat and make love on a rough piece of material to enjoy that side of your personality.  When you feel romantic or cozy, try making love on cotton sheets with the sound of rain in the background.

Romantic scents such as sandalwood, rose, and patchouli can increase your sexual desire and add an additional layer to the sensual lovemaking.  However, the scents that your lover gives off during lovemaking can be the sexiest of all.  We subconsciously are turned on by the smell of our significant other, including cologne, shampoos, and natural body smells.

For the taste sense, food and drink can be used occasionally used in bed.  Try a flavored breath mint to add variety to the sensory experience of kissing, but do not use it to overpower the taste of your lover’s body and skin.  Every lovemaking session does not need props and planning!  Simply be mindful of the sensory stimulation that is available with your present mood, in your surroundings, and in your imagination.

We often forget to include kissing doing our central lovemaking.  It’s a shame, because as we age, the lips will still be able to kiss as the rest of the body begins to fail!  Sex is not just about the orgasm, but the performance until the journey’s end.  Every kiss should not lead to sex, but you will build intimacy and create a sense of anticipation as great ingredients for fantastic sex.  Spontaneous kisses, chicken pecks, butterfly kisses, or lingering kisses are all important tools to establishing intimacy.  If you and your partner do not kiss often, you may need to concentrate on this activity to become more comfortable, but once it becomes a part of your regular routine, you will find that you grow happier.

You need to want sex!  Just like any other activity that you enjoy, you will want it the more you think about it.  We are accustomed to concentrating on kids, work, and all the other minutiae of life, but we need to also bring sexuality into our regular consciousness.  This will keep you ready and wanting to experience acts at any time, rather than depending only on appointment sex.  When you are ready to go, sex will become less of a task and more something that you want to do.